It's only been four dates, but you already can't wait to tell him about your day and listen to him recount his.
Somewhere deep down you may hope that the brooding bad boy is going to suddenly change — perhaps order you a refill when you head to the bathroom instead of talking up the bartender. A nice guy is just that: He cares about your feelings, is interested in spending time with you, and is courteous.All traits, that if this goes well, he'll pass onto his son. And, after your third date when you left your keys in the cab, he came over to sit with you outside your apartment until the locksmith came. He's not looking to just get laid, he's in this to find someone to date seriously.Being reliable isn't just something he saves for his bros. So, when you text him "I'm so tired today," he responds within minutes (not a day later) with a "Me too. "There's never a shortage of something new to talk about.Many relationships breakup at the three-month point, as some people only like the beginning stages of a relationship and don’t want to get serious. He might have told you what you wanted to hear, but he didn’t come out and ask you first to be in a committed relationship, although he said he wasn’t seeing anyone else. You also don’t know if this morning when he said he loved how he felt with you, that he had swiped for the last time and was ready to delete his Tinder account, right? There’s a saying, “Seek and ye shall find.” Why did you create a fake Tinder profile to try to catch him? You felt insecure about your relationship status early on and didn’t trust him.From where he sat, he probably enjoyed dating you and hadn’t moved to a more serious stage yet. You were happy enough with him to want your relationship to be exclusive. Chances are he wanted to see where the relationship was going to go and got caught up in the game. If you’re sleeping together, he also might not want to give that up. Probably because you weren’t sure he wanted to be exclusive with you. You wanted to catch him and behind HIS back, logged on as a fake person to see if he’d take the bait. No guy wants to feel like his girlfriend is checking up on him, even if it’s innocent.